Welcome To Koze Fanm Blog!
We are going to start the conversation here. Let’s share ideas, thoughts, frustrations, and solutions alike. We have been silent for too long. We have a voice. It’s time to be heard. Don’t be shy.
You don’t need to be a great writer or even a good one. Just type something and let’s start engaging each other. For now, there may not be a large audience. So what? Let’s start with me and you. That’s right, Guylene Berry and you.
I promise you this, they will show up once we start some really good heated conversation about our fancies, wishes, desires, or frustrations.
So, I’m counting on you. Go ahead. Start. Don’t be scared. Don’t be shy. Whoever claims that Haitian women are shy must be one of the control Haitian sick men—mental sickness. I want to prove them wrong. And I need you to join the revolution with me.
I’m sick and tired of watching our beautiful, smart, brilliant, and creative Haitian women seating on the sideline. We are not shadow people. Don’t stand in any man’s shadow. Speak and be heard.
We want to be a force to help men achieve their dreams. We have what it takes to turn them into winners. History is replete with such cases. But we want to also be part of the dream as well. We want to be in the limelight as well. What’s wrong with that?
We want them to be the leaders or the head of households. But we also want them to fulfill their obligations as well. They must treat us as their queens. They must recognize our pains. I’m talking about bearing children and the hormonal changes our bodies go through.
They need to be sensitive to our needs. A little but significant gift every now and then does a lot of good to our emotions. A few gentle, lovely words can soother our spirit. So, it’s time for the men to tell us how beautiful we are. It’s time for them to congratulate us. It’s time for them to tell us “I love you”.
Of course, once they start stepping to the place to make us feel good about ourselves and make appreciated, we will cook, wash, clean and pamper them among all the zillion things they expect from us. We have never avoided our obligations. We are simply retaliating.
As you can see, I can be pretty opinioned, right? Well, that’s the kind of engaging conversation I’m looking for here.
I believe we can help each other. You have your own way of dealing with your concerns and I have my own. Share yours with me and I will do the same.
Together we can tackle our issues.
Sincerely yours,
Guylene